How To More Easily Reach Your Goals With Behavior-Based Goals

It’s a new year, and many of us are thinking of goal setting and possibly starting with behavior-based goals. From experience, they are a sure fire way to propel your outcome based goals! Now, How To More Easily Reach Your Goals With Behavior-Based Goals.

We usually think of goals that are a particular outcome. Some examples include:

  • Lose 20 pounds.
  • Increase income by 10%.
  • Buy a larger house/newer vehicle.
  • Run a marathon.
  • Save money for college.

Of course, these few are more common goals that people set for themselves.

But what if we based our goals on changing behaviors instead of obtaining a particular outcome? Could we modify or completely change behaviors that would lead us to the desired result quicker, healthier, and with less stress? Some experts certainly think so.

In my experience, without knowing of the term behavior-based goal setting, it is a steady, and purposeful process to lose weight or do a particular thing. But I have usually made the behaviors the action items.

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Behaviors as regularly planned habits for goal setting

Could it be that if we focus on the behavior we want, make that behavior a habit, that we reach the goal more easily, and with more joy?

Many times, when we set goals, we focus on the negative, i.e. what we don’t want rather than what we do want. My understanding from learning from studying some masters in the field – people like Brain Tracy, Zig Ziglar, and more, is that focusing on what we DO want is infinitely more productive.

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Behavior-based goals focus more on the behaviors we want to strengthen rather than the negative actions we want to remove. Seriously, if you set out to, “quit smoking,” what do you see in your mind?

In enhancing the positive responses, we change the way we act and react in many situations – not just situations surrounding a goal that is outcome-based. The ripple effect of creating more positive behaviors in our lives affects far more than just what we may have had in mind when creating the goal.

Focusing on behavior-based goals, something more like a habit, rather than outcome-based goals, like saving more money, has a ripple effect. Consider smart companies that know when behavior changes for the positive; the employee is happier not only at work but in their personal life and family life as well. A happier employee is a more productive employee. So these days we can find managers learning to integrate behavior-based goals at each employee review.

This type of goal-setting isn’t seen just in the office, either. Personal trainers, coaches, psychologists, therapists, and so many other professions add behavior-based goal setting to their repertoire of techniques. Focusing on behaviors helps those in these industries to help their clients reach success, whatever that may mean to them.

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Goals that change behaviors are a kind of intermediate goal that helps one achieve outcome-based goals easier, faster, and with more residual benefits. Like that daily habit action item I mentioned earlier. Strengthening a positive behavior to reach a goal will make it stronger in every situation where we use that behavior.

With all the significant life events last year, I by treating myself more kindly I could – be at peace with life. But, that is your typical kind of outcome goal. Instead, I upped a particular behavior I am already doing daily – meditating. At first, my three-year long practice of meditating daily for 10 to 20 minutes went to twice a day for 10 to 20 minutes. It truly helped with my guilt, sadness, and grief.

In other words, changing my daily habit in this particular goal, by increasing time in meditation, is moving me toward my outcome goal to – be at peace.

Try setting a few behavior-based goals of your own, and you’ll see that positively changing a behavior helps in so many different areas of your life. The results are great, and your new positive behaviors will serve you well for the rest of your life.

By the way, we can always change the behavior as we go along because as results appear in our outer world, we can say to ourself, “Hey, I’m on to something!”

Stay with me as we explore more about behavior-based goal setting in upcoming posts, ideas around:

–   using behavior-based goal setting in work and life

–   rewards in behavior-based goals

–   making and using these “more like habit” goals

–   difference between behavior and outcome-based goals

–   advantages of goals around behaviors

Maybe also the SMART formula even though, many of us are familiar with it and might use it too!

Question – Do you already set behavior based outcome goals? How do they work for you? What tip can you share around goal setting?

 

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  1. Phoenicia
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    If goals are not well thought out it is easy to drop them at the first sign of a challenge . Also you need to want to meet the goal with every inch of your body . If you set an “I would not mind losing a stone” goal, it is unlikely to happen as you do not desire it enough.

    Action plans are crucial as you need to plan how you are going to move from where you are right now to where you would like to be. Small steps which are doable will keep you on track.

    • Phoenicia it’s those small steps which ARE doable that can cause us to fall off the track to reaching our goal! Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment. PS – Love that example of a half hearted goal, “would not mind…” 😊

  2. Very good advise Patricia. Goals setting and implementation is not something one should take lightly. The attention one gives it can greatly affect One’s outcome
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    • Hi Susan. I know I’ve struggled with goals, changed methods through the year, and what I’ve learned and continue to learn is that the bigger or more vague ones usually flatline for me. I don’t think I am the only one considering how much society tells us to go big, without any instruction manual! Happy New Year!

  3. Patricia — I’m not sure I quite get the difference, honestly. Maybe my goal is to become healthier (instead of I want to lose 20 pounds). But behavior has a direct correlation to achieving goals. I think that for me the word “commitment” to changing behavior is more descriptive. We know we have to change our behavior (eat less) but identifying the behavior is not enough. We have to commit to changing that behavior. Maybe I’m saying the same thing as you but don’t see it!

    • Hi Jeanette. Hoping to clarify as this post or post series evolves. The main thing is – “become healthier” is an outcome, it’s not the actual daily behaviors that must become habits to get a person to that goal. I hope that helps although when you said, “behavior has a direct correlation to achieving goals.” I believe you did understand! Happy New Year!

  4. Love thinking of goals this way. It is refreshing. I am going to sit down with this and play with it for the New Year. Big thanks!!!

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